Today, we are meeting ROXY, aka DJ ROXY, aka Roxy the Karaoke Queen, the singing DJ of Nashville, TN!
Why I started: My love for karaoke started long before I ever imagined making a career out of it. Karaoke has always been my go-to activity for getting out, being social, and meeting new people. I love to sing, and when I was traveling solo, karaoke became a way to connect with others while doing something I genuinely enjoyed. For me, simply going to a bar was never enough. I wanted an experience, and karaoke was always that experience. Becoming a DJ and karaoke host was a combination of passion and divine timing. I knew what I didn't want: a traditional office job. I wanted to build a life where I could make a living doing the things I loved, including performing, being on stage, and bringing people together. Then one day, a friend asked me, “Do you want to learn how to do this?” I said yes, and the rest is history! We get one life, and I believe there's something incredibly special about turning the things that bring us joy into the way we make a living. Today, I get to combine my love of music, performance, and human connection to create experiences where people can let loose, be themselves, and make memories. I couldn't imagine a better way to spend my time.
What I love about being a business owner: What I love most about being a business owner is the ability to build a life that feels true to who I am. My schedule looks a little different from most people's. When others are clocking out for the day, that's often when my work begins, and when everyone else is heading into work on Monday, that can feel like my Saturday! While it comes with its own challenges, I love having some control over how I spend my time and the freedom to create a career around my personality, passions, and interests. One of the most exciting parts is realizing just how many possibilities exist. There are so many different paths you can take as a DJ, and I love imagining what I could do next and then finding a way to make it happen. Opportunities I never even dreamed were possible are now becoming my reality. I'm constantly learning, growing, and discovering what else I can create. For me, success isn't defined by a title or a certain level of achievement. It's being able to build a life I genuinely love living — affording the things I desire, spending time with the people I love, and having the freedom to experience life on my own terms. And if I can create experiences that bring other people joy and happiness along the way, that's the best part of all.
What type of impact do you hope to have on those you meet and/or who experience your business? Music is such a powerful tool. It can shape the energy and atmosphere of a room before anyone even walks through the door. Whether I'm DJing a wedding, private party, corporate event, award ceremony, grand opening, or community gathering, I see music as an opportunity to set the tone and create an experience that makes people feel something. You never know what someone is walking into a room carrying. Maybe they're nervous, unsure of what to expect, or navigating a difficult season in their life. But sometimes, stepping into an environment filled with upbeat music and positive energy can turn someone's entire day around without a single word being exchanged. I believe people may forget what you said, but they'll remember how you made them feel. My goal is to curate experiences that bring people joy, help them feel present in the moment, and leave them feeling a little better than they did when they arrived. If I can create even one moment that makes someone's day brighter, reminds them to let loose, or gives them a reason to smile, then I've done what I set out to do.
Who or what inspires you? If you had asked me 15 years ago where I thought my life would be today, this would not have been it. I envisioned a very traditional path: getting married, having children, and building a career. Before COVID, I was climbing the corporate ladder as a financial sales consultant north of New York City. But when the pandemic hit, I finally took a step back and asked myself, What am I actually doing with my life? I realized I had been existing, but not truly living. Since then, I've done things I never imagined I'd have the courage or capability to do. I've driven across the country and back, followed the places my heart and soul were calling me toward, and built a career in an industry I never saw coming. Becoming a DJ wasn't part of my original vision, but today, I'm driven by a deeper purpose: creating uplifting, meaningful experiences through music, song, and words. What inspires me most is the faith that my life is unfolding as it's meant to. When I imagine my future now, it's no longer a picture copied and pasted from society's expectations. It's something I'm creating by listening to a calling greater than myself. I'm not saying there's anything wrong with the traditional path. There are still aspects of that life I desire. But I've stopped chasing a predetermined version of happiness and started finding joy in the life I'm living right now. That shift has been transformative. I'm inspired by the possibilities that open up when we trust ourselves enough to take a different path, even when we can't see where it leads. I have faith that I'm exactly where I'm supposed to be, and I'm excited to discover where this journey takes me next.
What is your favorite piece of advice you've ever received or favorite quote? One of the beliefs I live by is that everything happening in my life, including what I'm feeling and experiencing, is unfolding exactly as it needs to for my higher self and my growth. I've learned to really listen to my intuition and pay attention to what brings me peace. For a long time, I think it's easy to make decisions based on what we should do, what makes sense on paper, or what other people expect of us. But I've found that when I quiet the outside noise and listen to what's happening within me, I feel more aligned with the life I'm meant to be creating. That doesn't mean the path is always easy. When I encounter challenges, I try to remind myself that difficult seasons can teach us things about ourselves that comfort never could. Sometimes the very experiences we'd rather avoid are the ones that help us grow into who we're becoming. My biggest piece of advice is to trust yourself, trust your intuition, and trust that you don't need to have the entire journey figured out to take the next step. Sometimes, finding peace in where you are is what gives you the courage to discover what's next.
What does BEAUTY mean to you? To me, beauty is about living a beautiful life. It's surrounding yourself with wonderful, kind, and ambitious people who inspire you to grow. It's having the confidence to be yourself, discovering and serving your purpose, and making time for the things that genuinely bring you joy. I believe beauty is found in the experiences we create, the people we share them with, and the memories we make along the way. It's in the courage to pursue what lights you up, the freedom to live authentically, and the ability to appreciate the life you're building rather than constantly chasing what you think it should look like. At the end of the day, I think a beautiful life is a collection of beautiful moments. And the more intentional we are about how we live, who we surround ourselves with, and what we choose to pursue, the more beautiful that life becomes.
What advice would you give your past self just starting your business? I'd tell her that even if she's not where she ultimately wants to be, she's exactly where she's supposed to be right now. When I look back at my previous careers, I can see how much I learned from each chapter. My experience in sales, business, and marketing has given me skills and knowledge that I use in my business today. If I had pursued this career path earlier, I don't think I would be where I am now. I may not have had the experience, perspective, or discernment to make the decisions that have brought me here. One thing I've learned is that jobs and careers will change, but the skills you acquire along the way are yours forever. Nothing is wasted if you're willing to learn from it. I'd also remind her that sometimes taking a step back to redirect your life is one of the biggest power moves you can make. You don't have to stay on a path simply because you've already invested time in it. You're allowed to change your mind, explore something new, and choose a different direction. Above all, I'd tell her to keep leaning into the things she loves, trust herself, and remain open to what's possible. The right people and opportunities will present themselves in their own time. You don't have to force every door open. Sometimes your job is simply to keep showing up, keep growing, and be ready when the next door opens.
What would you like our Beauty Boost members to know? The future is full of possibilities, even when you can't see what those possibilities look like yet. You don't have to follow someone else's blueprint for your life. You get to decide what matters to you, what kind of impact you want to make, and how you want people to feel because you were part of their story. My advice is to identify how you want to leave a lasting impact and then find a way to bring that vision to life. Look for opportunities to leave the people around you — and yourself — feeling better than they did before. That doesn't always require a grand gesture. Sometimes it's creating a joyful experience, making someone feel seen, encouraging them to take a chance, or simply reminding them that life can be beautiful. I believe that's how communities come together, how positive change happens, and how we create an impact that lasts beyond the moment. You never know how far a kind word, a shared experience, or a little encouragement can reach. We're all creating something through the way we live, the choices we make, and the way we show up for others. Be intentional about what you want that to be. The possibilities are endless, and you don't have to have it all figured out to begin.
GET IN TOUCH WITH ROXY
email: roxythekaraokequeen@gmail.com
IG: roxythekaraokequeen
IG: djroxy_music
